Sunday, January 19, 2020

3 Ps that are Making My Life Pleasanter

I've been feeling pretty content lately. Not that I don't still have the occasional mood swing, but overall I've been more relaxed--in my job, in my home life, in my everything. So I was sort of sitting here, thinking about the things that have improved the quality of my life lately. I wish I could say they're big, meaningful changes, like spending more quality time with my family, or finding a home church I love. But what it comes down to is three Ps--all of them pretty shallow:
Plotting, Paddlingand Podcasts.


I've always been a pantser when it comes to writing. At the most I jot down a few notes about what I want to happen in my book(s), then pretty much wing it from chapter to chapter. But Spring of Crows is the final book in the series, which requires more intricate planning. I have to figure out how to tie every loose end in a way that lines up logically with the past two books. All of this has forced me to switch from pantsing to plotting. So before starting this installment, I created detailed summaries of what was going to happen for the first 13 chapters. It took me the better part of a day to do it, but holy cow, I'm so glad I did. Now every time I sit down to write, there's virtually no writer's block. It feels like the story is already there; my job is simply to transcribe it. Don't get me wrong, I'm still a painfully slow writer. But overall writing has been a more effortless experience, and it makes me feel so...happy.*

*(Note: I'm officially screwed once I finish chapter 13, because at that point I'm out of summaries and it's back to the drawing board, but I'm trying not to think about that too much.)


Clint and I have tried so many different exercise regimes to stay in shape. Every time we find one we're excited about, it loses its appeal after a few weeks. It's even more tricky because Clint has knee problems, which leaves him with the conundrum of: 1. Working toward a healthier body but putting more strain and potential damage on an already-injured knee, or 2. Keeping his knee safe but throwing his body to the wolves. 

Upon the recommendation of our brother in-law, Clint started researching water rowing machines. He was pretty happy to learn that rowing offers a full-body workout, but is considered a zero impact exercise...perfect for someone with a bad knee. We ended up purchasing this:
It's a used one, but barely.

The first time we used it, it was like some medieval torture machine. totally wasn't bad at all. But it turns out that rowing is a lot of work. For his first workout, Clint lasted only five minutes. On the plus side, it put no strain on his knee while simultaneously kicking his ass (and mine too, by the time it was my turn). But neither one of us are disillusioned into thinking we'll have enough motivation to stick with something that's essentially work. Enter THIS:

We already own a VR system, so we purchased a subscription to Holodia's Holofit, which is a fully immersive VR cardio workout. Those pictures above aren't simply pretty screen images. We actually paddle through these beautiful environments. I can turn my head in any direction; I can look behind me, and this is what I see (and hear, as there are sounds as well--water sloshing, birds chirping, a train going by...etc.). It's amazing. The first time Clint and I tried it out, our workout times immediately doubled with no extra effort on our part. You don't feel like you're "working" when you're rowing through canyons, snowy mountains, or a tropical paradise. Each environment also includes trophies you can collect along the way, and your subscription includes a phone app that tracks all of your progress--all things that motivate you to come back. Long story short: This is the most pleasant workout regime I've ever experienced. Not only is it adding to the quality of my life right now, but it's enjoyable enough that I just might end up sticking with it long-term. I guess only time will tell.


The commute home from work has been a growing thorn in my side. I'm totally cool with the morning commute--it's a new day, and I like that feeling of slowly energizing in the car while sipping my coffee, chatting with Clint, listening to music, all while
taking in the pretty scenery (Silverwood Lake is gorgeous in the mornings). But the afternoon drives are grueling. I'm burnt out from answering to 108 middle-schoolers all day, and because Clint is the one driving, it puts me into passive passenger mode for 45 minutes. I get drowsy, bored, and restless. Drowsy would be okay if I could nap in the car, but I can't (that's a whole other topic), and feeling tired when you can't nap is kind of torture. So after hearing how much Shannon enjoys listening to podcasts during her commute, I decided to give them a try.

I didn't want to listen to anything informational, motivational, or political (again, long work day); I wanted something intriguing with an actual storyline. I knew immediately that true crime was the way to go (kind of funny because I don't read murder mysteries, or watch them on TV). Since real life drama isn't Clint's thing, I plugged into earbuds and listened to my first podcast alone as he drove us home from work. I loved it beyond words. The drive flew by, and I wasn't bored or drowsy at all. In fact, I was so addicted to the episode that during 7th period the next day, I couldn't wait for our commute home so I could continue the saga where I had left off.

On day 2, Clint suggested I play the podcast aloud. Even though murder mysteries aren't his first choice, I think he was feeling a little isolated with me listening to it on my own. It probably sucks having your wife sitting right next to you but no ability to talk to--or hang out with--her. I was worried that us listening to it together would result in a bunch of commentary on his part when I wanted to 'lose myself' in the podcast (and not have to pause it over and over), but he was a great listener through the episode and never interrupted the story. Now Clint and I are enjoying the podcast series, Cold, on our drives home. I'll be sad once it's over (this series has 18 episodes), but I already have Bear Brook lined up for my next series, followed by Dr. Death, and so on. I know all this sounds a little weird given that podcasts aren't some new thing, but I never realized how entertaining they can be. Now I understand why people at the turn of the 20th century loved listening to radio shows so much. There's something about it that's so appealing. Not only do I no longer dread the drive home from work, I'm actually excited for it. So if you're like me and stuck with a boring commute, I highly recommend trying out some podcasts. Choose a topic you love and see what's out there. You won't regret it!

So there you have it. Maybe next month, three Qs will show up and make life even better. (Or derail things completely) (Yeah, it'll probably be that).


  1. Haha. I thought those pictures were real for a minute. Gosh, I want a VR thingie. I wonder if I can live vicariously through a Youtube video. I'm a sucker for beautiful scenery. I get in Podcasts modes sometimes. I haven't thought to try a story podcast! I listen to audiobooks sometimes. I have a short commute, but it adds up.

    SPRING OF CROWS!!!! :D I love plotting! It makes me feel all prepared and excited. ^_^

    I'm so glad you're doing well!

  2. A YouTube video might work! Though it's not going to have that immersive quality. For YouTube, you're looking AT the pretty scenery, for VR, you're IN it. We've had our VR system for a few years now, and I love it, but I'm not sure if I'd own one if I didn't have tech-savvy boys in this house getting everything set up for me. I'm moderately techie, but not techie enough.

    Try a story podcast Krystal! They're so much fun. What I didn't say in this post is that I actually did try an informational podcast out a couple years ago (Sawbones) and while it was interesting, it wasn't quite addictive, and it didn't hook me into podcasts. Turns out story ones are the ones for me.

  3. Free HTML templates in Pgtemplates
    We are free to HTML website. You can Download now. We have mare html themes. Our all HTML templates is free. You can any template and start your website.
    Please Visit:
    Thanx for nice Blog Post
    Wish you guys a happy new year.

  4. Ha! Love it.

    Can I add a 4th "P"?

    Prescription drugs.

    1. It's Dylan btw, it says I'm signed in on my Google account but for whatever reason it refuses to acknowledge my name and profile picture. Ugh

    2. Oh my gosh Dylan, originally I had pills listed as a fourth P! I was referring to vitamins though, not prescription drugs. ;)
      (Sorry that Google refuses to acknowledge you as a living and breathing entity)

  5. It's great that you're plotting out your novel! I'm not a plotter at all, mostly because I can't stick to them. I write a plot and then my story goes rogue. You would think I'd have more control over it than that.

    Throw his body to the wolves... hahaha! Sorry, um, those VR images are amazing! I've been dying to know more about this thing since you mentioned it before. Does it have updates so you can download more scenes to row through? The scenery is gorgeous. The scenic rides on my bike are real live places, but I think I would enjoy this just as much if not more!

    On the last point, I love podcasts. I started listening about the time Serial was getting big.I love true crime of all kinds (books, shows, podcasts). I've also recently started listening to the Grammar Girl podcast, which has like 600 episodes or something, so I may never run out of them. :D

    1. I know what you mean Kristyn; Black Lilies totally went rogue on me. Kade made a decision in the book that totally messed things up for me, and I had to rework my entire outline. I was pretty ticked. :P

      RIght now the Holofit is so new that updates are few and far between. We have eight environments we can row through. Each environment takes me 2-3 sessions to finish. This week I started getting used to some of my favorite environments, so now I'm listening to music while rowing just to break things up a bit. That's helping a lot. I imagine once Holofit gets more popular, they'll introduce more environments. Right now only 180-some people in the entire world have Holofit accounts!

      Grammar Girl, huh? I may have to check that one out.

  6. Skimming means to read something at a comparatively faster rate without going into an in-depth reading, so as to have an idea of what the work is all about. On the contrary, scanning implies a reading technique in which one takes a quick look of the document, so as to find the specific information contained in the written material.

    Reading not just helps a person to improve vocabulary but also increases basic knowledge. However, when we have to read and make a research of something from a voluminous material in a limited amount of time, a person either goes for skimming or scanning, depending on the purpose.

    As the two reading skills involves a very quick eye movement over the text, it becomes difficult for the students to distinguish the two, but their difference lies in the purpose itself.

    Content: Skimming Vs Scanning
    Comparison Chart
    Key Differences

    Comparison Chart
    Meaning Skimming is a way of reading something in a fast manner so as to grasp the main points. Scanning means to look carefully and quickly at the written material so as to locate something.
    Method of Reading Quick Selective
    Involves Reading out the maximum content in minimum time. Finding out the required data.
    Objective To take a birds-eye view of the text. To spot and cast specific facts.
    Familiarity The reader is not familiar with the text. The reader knows what he is searching for.

  7. Key Differences Between Skimming and Scanning
    The difference between skimming and scanning are discussed here in detail:

    Skimming can be defined as a type of reading in which the reader reads the text quickly to have an idea of the concept, subject matter, main points and gist, without paying close attention to the excessive detail. On the other hand, scanning refers to the reading technique, in which the reader moves his eyes over the entire text in order to locate specific keywords which he/she has in his/her mind.
    Skimming is a quick reading method, whereas scanning is a selective reading method.
    While skimming involves reading out the maximum amount of material in the minimum time, scanning is a method of searching out something in a fast manner.
    Skimming technique is used with the aim of taking an insight of what is contained in the study material, without reading it word for word. On the contrary, when the reader uses scanning he/she wants to find out the specific fact, keyword or information, of his/her need.
    Skimming is used to get acquainted with the text you have not read yet. Conversely, in the case of scanning the reader has the knowledge of what he/she is looking for, in the given text.

    Basically, skimming tells you what information is contained in the section or in the document as a whole. In this, the reader runs his eyes quickly over the large chunks of material to pick the main points. On the contrary, scanning tells you where the information of your requirement is located in the text.

    Hence, one can skim the passage to understand its essence, whereas one can scan it to find certain words, numbers, dates, etc.

  8. Nje nder avokat ne tirane me eksperience dhe aftesi te mira. na kontaktoni dhe vizitoni ne faqen tone.

  9. Thank you for sharing, and nice articles you have here buy Pills online moreover the admin of this site has really worked hard for all this once more thanks for sharing your articles.

  10. Antarvasna Hindi Sex Stories: Home of Official Antarvasna with thousands of hindi sex stories written in hindi.
    hindi sex kahani
    Mastram Sex Story

  11. LG 55EM9600: Could this be your next TV? The 55EM9600 weighs in at only 15.6 pounds, has a thickness (or thinness in this case) of only 4mm, a 5mm bezel, a staggering 100,000,000:1 contrast ratio and features a response time of 0.1 microseconds.

  12. Tamil sex stories - These sex stories is only for entertainment purpose. Here you can find best sex stories in your language. Share these Indian sex stories with your friends also.

  13. Thank you for sharing, and nice articles you have here buy fakenotes online moreover the admin of this site has really worked hard for all this once more thanks for sharing your articles.


  14. Rumah pods merupakan sebuah toko yang menyediakan berbagai keperluan terkait rokok elektrik jenis pod vape. Anda dapat menemukan berbagai jenis pods seperti
    JUUL, NCIG, Druga Lyfe, hingga Zeal serta kelengkapan lainnya dalam satu tempat, yaitu RUMAHPODS.

    Hangat - Lucu

  15. Very Nice And Impressive Post, Without Arrears Things Could Work Out This Way For Me. Thanks Once More For A Successful Search And Redirection Here. Very Nice Post And Well Optimized..

    I Present You


    Instrumentals & Free Beat

    Music Videos


    Gists, Giveaways Are Present On Naijatopmost

    Also Next Turning Out Website Is Hit Up Music

  16. This comment has been removed by the author.

  17. Thank you for sharing, and nice articles you have here buy weed online moreover the admin of this site has really worked hard for all this once more thanks for sharing your articles.

  18. Thank you for sharing, and nice articles you have here buy painkillers online moreover the admin of this site has really worked hard for all this once more thanks for sharing your articles.

  19. These days every user is engaged with new and advance gadgets, devices and driving huge traffic to their resources which already have crucial information. So Norton is the best option for securing all such devices and information from online threats. Go with and of having any issues get assistance from our team.
    office setup
    mcafee setup
    mcafee activation
    norton com/setup
    norton setup

  20. For technical hurdle arising during online payment of your credit card you can take help or suggestions with our experts. We offer free consultation to all our customers and keep their crucial information absolutely secure. Just make call to our executives instantly and get your all issue resolved permanently.
    boa login
    boa sign in
    citibank credit card login
    citibank login
    social security login
    my social security
    social security login
    my social security

  21. When you realize that your myaccountaccess is not functioning properly or you are having some other issues like hacking, spamming and more then make urgent call to our support teams. We are available 24X7 to assist all users in all kinds of technical issues related to various tools, apps, products and brands. Our support covers all kinds of hardware and software.
    www myaccountaccess com
    www myaccountaccess com
    www myaccountaccess com
    www myaccountaccess com
    www myaccountaccess com

  22. Hello world! It's a really great online shopping, I also purchased from this website but there services quality also awesome. So, here you can buy best 4K computer monitors, best ash vacuums, best car battery testers, best car seat Massagers, best airtight food storage containers, best air mattress pumps and best 12 cup coffee makers. And it's really helpful to buy from this online shopping.

  23. We have a class of escort services in Mumbai, Delhi and Gurgaon city. Our call girls offering incall and out call escorts services. They are reputed and high profile that’s why included in premium escorts class. If you want hire an escort model for your entrainments then you can give her charge and get lots of enjoy with her.
    Our escort services and provider
    Escort services, high profile call girls, celebrity models, Russian and foreigner ladies, independent housewife and college escorts.
    askhum free ad post portal in india


Thanks for your comment!